Group Coaching

Working on ourselves is great, but it doesn’t have to be done alone. Group coaching is an opportunity to grow and learn in relationship with others in a structured and guided space.

Ethical Polyam: How to not be a d*ck

An 8-Week Group Coaching Experience for People Who Want to Do Polyamory Better

Let's be honest: polyamory is hard. And somewhere between reading "Polysecure" and trying to schedule three Google calendars, a lot of us have accidentally been d*cks to people we care about.

Maybe you've weaponized therapy language in an argument. Maybe you've fallen into couple's privilege without realizing it. Maybe you're drowning in jealousy and taking it out on your partners. Or maybe you just know that what you're doing isn't working, but the Reddit threads and Instagram reels aren't cutting it anymore.

This group is for people who want to stop fumbling through polyamory and start practicing it with actual integrity.

You're not here to be perfect. You're here to be better—to figure out how to navigate multiple relationships without leaving a trail of hurt feelings, broken agreements, and people who never want to hear from you again.

What to Expect

This isn't theory. It's practice. You'll leave with tools, community, and a clearer sense of how to show up as the partner and person you actually want to be.

8 weekly 90-minute
virtual sessions

6-10 participants (small enough to get real, big enough for diverse perspectives)

Vibe: Direct, compassionate, and zero bullsh*t

Each week includes facilitated discussion, group processing, and practical tools you can use immediately.

Overview

Week 1 | Foundations: What Does "Ethical" Even Mean?

Week 2 | Know Thyself: Attachment, Needs & Boundaries

Week 3 | Communication Without the Cringe

Week 4 | Jealousy, Insecurity & the Sh*t We Don't Talk About

Week 5 | Power Dynamics & Privilege

Week 6 | Metamours, Autonomy & Staying in Your Lane

Week 7 | Breakups, De-escalation & Doing Hard Things Well

Week 8 | Your Polyam Identity: Integration & Moving Forward

Frequently Asked Questions

Still have questions? Reach out to schedule a free intro call to see if Ethical Polyam: How to not be a d*ck is a good fit for you and/or your partner.

  • Yes, if the following resonate with you:

    • You're actively practicing (or seriously exploring) ethical non-monogamy

    • You're willing to look at your own behavior honestly, even when it's uncomfortable

    • You want community with other people navigating polyamory, not just advice from the internet

    • You're ready to do the work of becoming the partner you say you want to be

    • You can commit to showing up for 8 weeks and being present

  • $750 for the full 8-week program

    Includes all sessions, private community access, workbook, and resources. Limited sliding scale spots available, reach out to discuss.

  • My coaching approach is direct and cuts through the B.S. I have worked with countless polyam/ENM, mono-poly, newly poly, seasoned poly relationships over the years and have stumbled through the process myself more than once.

    I have sharpened my perspectives on what makes relationships (of all types) work and am ready to bring my ideas to this group with confidence.

  • Fill out the interest form below or contact me directly via email (elliot@neurospacecoaching.com) with any questions or to reserve your spot!

  • I am gathering interest at the moment but plan to launch the group in April 2026! Meeting days and time TBD.

LET'S TALK

Interest Form

If you’re interested in joining the first cohort of Ethical Polyam: How to not be a d*ck please fill out the form below and I will reach out soon!